Some are workaholics, some are addicted to play TV-games, got a drinking problem, eat to much food, whatever! We are all different. What we chose to do and value, is up to one another. Nobody can decide how you should spend your time, money and life. It’s up to you, and the person you share your life with. If you like you, and your significent other loves you for who you are, why change? You only live once, so live it like you love. Trying to be someone you’re not is just so meaningless. People who can’t accept you, shouldn’t be a part of your life, they bring you down.
Don’t go with the flow, be your own river. Sometimes there’s rain and you’re flowing way to fast, and sometimes it’s sun and you run as fast as you want to run. Just do me a favour, be yourself, everybody else is taken.