I know this sounds superficial, but I can't help it; I can't stand ugly women! There is absolutely no reason what so ever why you shouldn't put on mascara, some rouge and lipgloss before you leave the house! It takes less than two minutes (oaky, maybe five), and it's not just for your own sake, it's for everyone!
I really don't know where to start, so here goes: It's not an illness to be married, to have kids, to have a home, to be and to have a familiy. Okay, sure, the kids comes first, but why shouldn't you do something about your looks? If you feel great, you're happy, happy people is positive and nice to be around. Ugly "I've given up" women is just scary.
I don't mean everyone when I write this, hell no, but there are so many who don't give a rat's ass about how they look, and that's just wrong. I mean, when you cut your hair short like a man's, you really got to work with your looks so you appear feminine. If you got facial hair, and other unpleasant places as well, remove it! Yeah, I feel sorry you have a moustage, but I wouldn't be it it wasn't there in the first place, if you know what I mean...
And why does it seems like everyone who catches a man, gives up? "I got a man, I'm married, I don't care about how I look". But you should! Think about your poor man! Give him some eye candy! After all, he's the man in the relationship - NOT you! It's not that wierd that men cheats and divorces women all the time, they want someone younger and prettier, and I don't blame them.
So what I'm trying say is that: care about the way you look! Everybody wants to appear like they care more about people's minds then what they look like, but no, it's not actually like that. A women who looks like she's drawn out from a gutter sends a signal that she has officially given up. But when you glow, dress feminine, have a beautiful hair and just looks like a million bucks, everyone will notice you in a positive way, like "she takes really good care about herself". It's not a sin to spend some time on your appearance to feel good. No one's born a natural beauty, maybe you were cute as a kid, but when you grow up you have to fight the wrinkels, the dark bags under your eyes, your love handles and so on. You don't have to be picture perfect everyday, but do the best with what you got!
Who would you pick?
My name's Marita. I'm a musician and songwriter from Norway. I'm interested in music, books, movies, clothes and more.
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